Thursday, March 29, 2007

The sickness has left the house, or so we hope. Cassidy was fine by Sunday, Daniel's pink eye was fine and treated all weekend. He has finished his course of drops. The last few days have been nice enough to open the windows, so I have! I will do anything to get rid of the bugs that have been plaguing us this ENTIRE winter season.

The school nurse says that the new "school of thought" recommends that kids now get a booster for whooping cough(Pertusiss.)So, I asked the doc when I took Daniel in for the pink eye. His answer was that a recommended booster is now, between the ages of 10 and 14. Kind of like when I was a kid, we were vaccinated against Measles, Mumps, and Rubella. When the kids a few years younger than me went to college, they were exposed to kids from everywhere. Many of them came down with one or all of the three, even though they had received the vaccinations as children. Mystery? I guess that your antibodies or some of them anyhow don't grow with you. I had a booster at 30. The day that I took Daniel home from the hospital. I did it because I was going home to a toddler and bringing an infant into the house. My job exposed me to many, many things, so I thought it a good idea. I guess I was right. I believe in vaccinations. Whole heartedly. I believe that they are a means to HELP rather than Hurt. There are people who don't believe in them for the fact that they are sometimes "artificial." There are people who don't believe in them because they believe that they cause Autism. I always took the chance with my kids, they turned out ok. Besides, without the vaccinations, the kids can't go to school.

The notion of homeschooling really would leave a bad taste in my mouth. I believe that children NEED to go to school. Home schooling is fine for the folks who are really INTO it, but I think that kids need a break. They grow so much by going to school. They learn so much, besides the academics. True, they can learn bad things. They may not learn the family's particular brand of religioius affiliation, or their ethics, or morals, but that can still be taught at home. My religious orientation, affiliation, and my morals don't count in a classroom. The children should be able to walk the walk and talk the talk even when they aren't at home. At home, the foundation is set, they take it out to the world with them.

Hey, how about the new study that Daycare children show bad behavior? That the kids of daycare are more likely to show bad behavior in a classroom setting? What the heck? Most of us don't or didn't have the choice but to work. Where were our children supposed to go when we had to return to work so that the kids could eat and have a roof over their heads??? Maybe if the economy was a lot better more mothers, or fathers, could stay home and raise their children. Both my boys are products of daycare. I took them both out when they were a year shy of Kindergarden, to put them in preschool. The daycare was just that, a babysitting service, and under no obligation to teach them the skills that they needed to learn to prep them for school. We, the parents were told as such by the director of day care and by the second in command of the company that I worked for. So, I decided along with my husband, that pre school was the way to go for that year. Glad I did, yeah, but would it have improved my children's behavior? NO! My kids were the "bitees" not the "biters." My kids were the recipients of the smacks, punches and throwdowns, that the other ones' parents couldn't understand why it happened. Those other kids must have provoked their child. Yeah, right! THere is the root of bad behavior, but just don't get me started on that one. Cassidy didn't go to preschool, and only went to daycare for a short time in her short life. She went as an infant, until we decided that it would be best for me to stay home with her. Then I returned to work, and my friend and also my neighbor watched her before I permanantly left my job. So, I can't judge her behavior against the daycare thing. I do know that her teacher says that she seemed more prepared to go to school than the majority of kids who went to the district's pre school! He said that when things don't go her way, she just rolls with it, moves on and gets over it.

So, there you have it. My take on a few subjects jumping around the old gray matter. Don't know where this came from, but give me a thought and I run with it! Take care for now.

Oh! If you are in the Neighborhood, the RIPTIDE (Daniel's team) WEBSITE, listed in the side bar has the addresses for the yard sale. It promises to be two great days of fundrasing!

9 comments:

JUST A MOM said...

OK SO I WAS READING THIS WHILE I ATE BREAKFAST,,,,,,,,,, I have finished my honey nut cheerios,,, I am ready to comment,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


First I agree with your veiw of the shots, I do have a question,,, What is your take on this new one for the girls that is for vanginal cancer? I do question and have so far thought um NOT MY GIRLS!!! I plan to question my doc when I go next.

OK missy next on your list,, DAYCARE and these kids,,, I have MY views on this subject,,, SOME children in daycare have state paid fees. SOME of these mothers have their children in daycare from open to close. I KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE!!! Now for these kids in daycare as a whole,,, you see most of these children are in the care of a stranger for 8 to 10 hours a day. They are picked up and taken to McD's for dinner taken home put in a tub then off to bed, to start the next day all over in the same way. MY PROBLEM with this is this,,,,,,,,,,,,, the worker in the day care has no clue what they are doing,,they see this job as "BABYSITTING AND AN EASY WAY TO MAKE MONEY" UNTILL they see it can be a very sucking (not sucky) job, they do not get paid enough and there for quit,, LEAVING THE SAID CHILDREN IN HER CARE TO HAVE TO LEARN TO DEAL WITH YET ANOTHER DIFFERENT LADY WHO CARES FOR THEM for 8 to 10 hours a day. This is what is ending up with "UNBONDABLE CHILDREN" These babies do not have the chance to learn BOND to people.tHIS IS WHAT IS CAUSING THESE CHILDREN TO BE mean!!!!
I see the best "daycare" being IN HOME CARE of someone who REALLLY knows what they are doing and plans to be a part of that family and take that childs best intrest into their hearts!!!!

Your babies were lucky to have a life at home,, parents who did not throw them to suzy down the street on the weekends so they could to relax. I have been in the child welfare field way too long.. YES, sadly some (alot) of mommies HAVE to work,, BUT thank God there are those like YOU who DO look to instill your values into their children.

So ya still love me?????

Lynda said...

I heard the daycare thing, and I still believe it has more to do with the parents than anything else.

I might open my windows tonight if the weather stays nice.

Lynda said...

I guess I should explain the daycare thing - kind of like Just a Mom said. Some parents expect schools, daycares, etc to provide the discipline their child needs. They don't know how to parent. Your kids probably turned out ok, because you were there for them.

Now I am no scientist, but I do see too many people treat their kids like possessions, and don't really make an effort to do any parenting.

So, I don't think we can just point at daycares and say, "You're the reason my kids are bad!" But, someone will probably still try to sue. LOL.

Rachel said...

I never had kids but I think that what Just a Mom said makes a lot of sense. Sad for those poor kids. It seems many kids today are not loved and given the guidance that they need from their parents.

I know one family that homeschooled their kids and they are all top notch kids.

Good luck with the yard sale!

Cheyenne said...

I stayed home the first 3 years of my daughter's life. Then my job started later than my first husband's ended, so we each watched her when the other was at work. When I left him I took her to my parents to watch her while I worked. No pre-school, she did do kindergarten though. Everything worked out quite well.

Claire said...

Good luck with the yard sale!

Cxx

Cathy said...

Well, I can tell you that Cassi was babysat, not in daycare. We found this wonderful woman while Cassi was little and I had to go to work. She quit her job because her 2 girls were not being treated as well as she wanted in day care. So she quit her job and started babysitting full time. Good for us as she cared for the kids like her own. Didn't charge much and did projects and things with the kids.

Now, once I'm done school and back to work, Cassi will have to go to some sort of care again. But, it won't be an all-day event like before, except in the summer.

That's my take.

Ralph said...
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Ralph said...

Miki
Studies are a lot like computer models I wrote about awhile ago - rarely are they right. Just look at all the studies that said one thing then got reversed. Eggs are bad for you - wait, wait, now they are good for you. Alcohol is bad for you - wait, wait, in moderation it is now good for you. The list goes on.
That and remember - they didn't tell you how many kids were in the study, where it was, etc.
The problem with a lot (not all) research and computer models are people doing it knowing what THEY want the results to show. They are not true researchers - let the results speak for themselves.
I am not even going to talk about the financial and promotional aspects of all this.
Ralph